Celebrating the two-spirit community
by Rosanna Deerchild
I always knew I was different.
As a wee Deerchild l preferred toy cars over dolls. As a rebel without a cause teen I dressed in men's shirts and ties and rejected makeup.
Most of my friends were boys, and in college I would blush and stammer every time a certain woman spoke to me.
But I never gave it much thought. Being a brown girl in a racist town was hard enough, and I focused on simply getting out alive.
It wasn't until I was 25 that I realized why I was so different. It struck me like a lightning bolt. I am a two-spirit bisexual woman.
For me, it was a hard truth. I raged against my sexuality. Mourned what I imagined was an easy hetero romance with 2½ kids and a dog. Tried to convince myself that this was a phase or an illness that I could change. Struggled with telling friends and family.
But I did not change. No therapy, ceremony or prayer could "cure" me, because there is nothing wrong with me.
Eventually I accepted that. Then as I learned more, have come to love who I am. I am just how Creator made me. And now I carry all of who I am with Pride.
This week on Radio Indigenous: we celebrate our two-spirit community.
Shortly after midnight on June 12th, Senator Murray Sinclair and his family were celebrating his daughter's 33rd birthday. That same night 49 young men and women were shot and killed at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando during Pride month celebrations. This hit home for Senator Sinclair because his daughter is openly gay. The next day, after a moment of silence, he rose in the Red Chamber and spoke.
And he didn't do it quietly. Guiboche posted photos of himself on Facebook as his female identity.
From the trapline to the the front line of HIV/AIDS awareness, marriage to parenting and finally as a two-spirit elder living her truth out loud. Manee Chacaby's book is called A Two-Spirit Journey: The Autobiography of a Lesbian Ojibwa-Cree Elder. She'll explain how acceptance of two-spirit people has changed.
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