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The Secret Lives of Parents

How well do you really know your parents? This week, Piya speaks with people who discovered bombshells about their folks that didn't just change how they saw them, but how they saw themselves, their childhoods and their places in the world.
Anya Yurchyshyn's parents on their wedding day. (Submitted by Anya Yurchyshyn)
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How well do you really know your parents? This week, Piya speaks with people who discovered bombshells about their folks that didn't just change how they saw them, but how they saw themselves, their childhoods and their places in the world.

Here are the stories from this week's episode...

Learning to love your parents as people

When Anya Yurchyshyn was growing up, her father was very strict, and her mother suffered from alcoholism. She felt relief when they eventually died, until she discovered their secret love letters, which changed her understanding of who her parents were.

Her mother kept her racial background a secret her whole life

Gail Lukasik grew up in the suburbs of Ohio. For most of her life, she thought she was white. Then one day she found out her mother was keeping a big secret about their family background. She speaks with Piya about how discovering her true racial background changed her views on race and her own identity.

Bill Gaston describes the 'mystical experience' at his father's deathbed

Author Bill Gaston says his relationship with his dad was typical. They liked to go fishing together, and his dad would tell tall tales of his younger years. But his dad's flaws and struggle with alcoholism became more apparent to Gaston as he got older, and he distanced himself. He tells Piya how learning about the childhood struggles that made his dad who he was led to forgiveness.

'I'll tell you someday': A daughter discovers her dad's long-lost son

Beckie Evans had a happy childhood, growing up in Hamilton, Ont. But she always wondered why her dad kept a photo of a blond-haired boy on his dresser. Her parents refused to discuss it. It wasn't until years later she discovered the truth and her dad was reunited with his long-lost son.