Call yourself a trans ally? Check yourself before you do, this activist says

While it's easy to call yourself an ally if you believe in supporting marginalized communities, Samson Brown says being a true "trans ally" requires a dose of humility. He's holding a workshop on trans issues in Regent Park Thursday night

Toronto workshop aims to educate people on how to be meaningful champions of the transgender community

Samson Brown joined host Matt Galloway on CBC's Metro Morning Thursday to talk about a workshop he is speaking at to educate people on how to be true trans allies.

While it's easy to call yourself an ally if you believe in supporting marginalized communities, one man says being a true "trans ally" requires a dose of humility.

Artist Samson Brown, who is a trans man, said it's a constant process of learning and unlearning what a lot of people have been taught their whole lives. 

Brown, the director of trans experience at Toni Marlow — a clothing company that designs underwear for trans people—is leading a workshop about trans issues Thursday night at the Centre for Social Innovation in Regent Park.

"You have to be be willing to open yourself up to being checked on things you did not know and honouring that you are going to make mistakes," he said on CBC's Metro Morning. 

You can't be a constructive ally unless you first come to them from a place of love.- Samson Brown

Brown says there is a danger in calling one's self an ally but not really understanding what that means. 

"Often allies are not part of that community," he said.

"What winds up happening is they can at times step over the voices of the people who are actually in that community." He says people who don't have first-hand knowledge of being transgender run the risk of offending or even outing people. 

"They can sometimes put people in an unsafe space," he said.

Call in, don't call out

Brown will use his own experience of navigating through life as a trans man at Thursday night's workshop. Specifically, he'll talk about his idea that "calling in" can help people avoid calling others out. He uses his father, who asks questions before introducing Brown to someone for the first time, as an example. 
In his work with clothing company Toni Marlow, known for making underwear for trans people, Brown runs workshops to generate conversations about the trans experience. (Paul Ohonsi)

"He'll let me know, 'Hey, so there's this person, this is the type of personality that they have and I don't know how to best introduce you.'" Brown explained how his father then asks him how they can "educate" that person and avoid being shamed, outed or insulted.  

"For me, having my dad ask me these questions ...  lets me know he values my experience." He says just being a friend who listens can go a long way. 

"You can't be a constructive ally unless you first come to them from a place of love."


Ali Chiasson

Reporter, CBC Toronto

From teleprompter to Associate Producer, Ali Chiasson worked many desks at CBC News Network before stepping in front of the cameras at CBC Toronto. Ali covers a wide range of breaking and feature stories and has a special knack for people profiles. Off the clock, Ali is happiest walking through Bloordale with headphones on, picking through local produce markets, sipping bubble tea and snapping pics of street art.