At 72, woman started second life — as a New Brunswick Acadian
Given up for adoption in the 1920s, Lillian Vetter travelled to New Brunswick at 70, in search of clues
Lillian Vetter's life can be split into two chapters: the first 72 years of her life, and the past 25 years.
Vetter was born in New Brunswick in 1922 and given up by her biological parents as a child. She was raised in Fitchburg, Mass., by her adoptive family.
She married but never had children. Widowed at 70 and without any family south of the border, she set out to find out more about her Acadian origins.
On a trip to Louisiana with a friend, she met many francophones and asked around about her birth name — Petitpas.
Someone told her she should go to New Brunswick. The year was 1994. It was the first World Acadian Congress.
"I said 'huh?" Vetter recalled, laughing.
Vetter had never heard of the event.
This was before the age of the internet. She called the Better Business Bureau in Fredericton, and next thing she knew, she was on a train to New Brunswick, armed with her birth certificate.
Vetter visited cemeteries, churches and nursing homes in search of clues.
She went to Barachois, Shediac and Richibucto Village. People told her many anecdotes but nothing concrete.
Then one day, a woman left a note at her hotel.
"I was overwhelmed," Vetter remembered.
The note was from her sister.
Unbeknownst to her, she had two sisters and a brother.
They all met for the first time the next day.
Suddenly, a large family
"It was hard for me to believe," said Vetter. "In some ways sometimes I think maybe I'm still in a dream."
She went back to the U.S., sold her house, packed her bags, and at 72 years of age, moved back to the country where she was born.
Overnight, she had what was a very large family.
Not only siblings, but nephews and nieces, one of them, Canada's minister of health, Ginette Petitpas Taylor.
"What it's done to my life," she said. "It's made it whole again. It's fulfilled more expectations than I would have ever had if I had stayed in the States."
Since 1994, the World Acadian Congress has been held every five years.
Part of the mission is to reunite families.
Best years of her life
For Vetter, that reunion has been a daily thing. Now 97, she lives in a seniors home in Moncton, just down the hall from her sister.
She's grateful for getting back her "famille."
"The last 25 years have been the happiest of my life,'" she said.
"And I think they deserve a big 'merci beaucoup.'"
With files from Janique LeBlanc