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Calgary dad shares Thanksgiving with 21-year-old daughter he didn't know existed

Namuunbileg Basaa says this Thanksgiving is one he will never forget.

He had left Mongolia as a refugee — and didn't know his daughter was born there shortly after

Namuunbileg Basaa and his daughter Indra met for the first time just a few weeks ago as she stepped off a plane in Calgary, to start a new chapter of her life in Canada. (Dan McGarvey)

Namuunbileg Basaa says this Thanksgiving is one he will never forget.

Basaa, known as Billy to friends and coworkers, left Mongolia as a refugee 22 years ago during a time of crisis and political upheaval in the East Asian country.

What he didn't know is that shortly after he left the country for good, severing his ties there, his daughter was born.

Unaware of his child back home, Basaa went on to marry and have a family of his own here, living the Canadian dream and enjoying success as a refugee.

Bassaa is a heavy duty journeyman mechanic with LaFarge. His wife is a dental assistant. They've made their home here.

Then in 2014 came a bombshell: news that he had a 15-year-old daughter, Indra, back in Mongolia, who he never knew existed. 

The pair connected online, started communicating and building a relationship. 

In 2018, talk turned to the possibility of Indra joining her Dad in Alberta, for good. Basaa began talking to an immigration consultant to explore what was possible.

The dream finally became a reality last month when 21-year-old Indra stepped off an international flight from Japan at Calgary International Airport and laid eyes on her dad and his family — her new family — for the first time. 

The Basaa family met Indra for the first time at Calgary International Airport. She was greeted with a welcome balloon and flowers after making the journey from Mongolia to start a new life with her new family. (Submitted by Namuunbileg Basaa)

Today, following two weeks of isolation due to COVID-19 restrictions, they will sit around a table and share their first Canadian Thanksgiving together. 

Everything is new for both of them right now.

"It was the happiest moment for all of us," said Basaa. "It was unbelievable, unreal, I couldn't describe what we felt."

"With COVID-19 it was so strange. I wanted to hug her, we all wanted to hug and it was tough," he said.

Indra struggles to find the words to properly capture what it was like to lay eyes on her dad for the first time.

"It was unbelievable. That's all I can say," she said, after a long pause.

"Life was kind of tough there, in Mongolia," she said.

"We're trying our best and everything's going very smoothly."

The past couple of weeks have been a whirlwind for Indra.

Basaa said his Mongolian friends and family can't wait to meet her in the coming days and weeks. Indra is in demand.

"We are so grateful that she's here and life is just unbelievable, we're so happy," said Basaa.

Basaa said Canada has given him everything he has. He says he hopes the country that welcomed him can offer his daughter the same opportunities.

"You can be as free as you want and if you work hard and you want to make something out of yourself there's no other country that can give you the opportunities that Canada provides," said Basaa.

Indra arrived as her dad and his family moved into a new home west of Calgary. She still hasn't seen the mountains or explored the city. Her first real taste of Canadian life will be her first Thanksgiving.

Immigration consultant Sujit Saha connected Basaa with a federal government pilot program designed to reconnect refugees with children they didn’t know they had. (Dan McGarvey/CBC)

"This will be the most memorable Thanksgiving for us. We're going to have a big feast for sure," Basaa said with a laugh.

"She will start learning the Canadian culture and she will understand the true meaning of this Thanksgiving holiday …It's just so meant to be, it's perfect."

As they posed for a photograph, Basaa planted a kiss on his daughter's forehead. 

Watching from the sidelines is the man who made it happen: Sujit Kumar Saha, an immigration consultant with Bonnyville Immigration Services, based in northeast Calgary.

Last September, the federal government announced a new pilot program for family members of refugees that weren't declared originally to apply for permanent residency. 

Indra qualified for the program and her application was processed within five months.

"I'm extremely happy. A lot of people are in this situation and I hope the government extends the pilot program," said Saha.

"It gives me extreme pleasure that I was able to reunite father and daughter for the first time in their lives. It's extremely special."

Indra said she's getting to know her new family, including a stepmother, two half brothers and a half sister.

She said she wants to get a drivers licence and is already talking about school and her future here.

"I already love Canada," she said.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Dan McGarvey

Journalist

Dan McGarvey is a mobile journalist focused on filing stories remotely for CBC Calgary’s web, radio, TV and social media platforms, only using an iPhone and mobile tech. You can email story ideas and tips to Dan at: dan.mcgarvey@cbc.ca or tweet him @DanMcGarvey

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