Keep the conversation light and happy by asking positive questions. And don't forget to listen closely to his/her answers! Avoid topics that are too personal or could go either way (e.g. What do you do? What brings you here tonight?)

We all know that eye contact is important, but use it sparingly. It is the most overused flirting tactic! i is for... I (It's all about you!)

Be confident in who you are. Authenticity will naturally draw people in, so don't try to mimic anyone else, just be yourself. And remember to smile. Research shows that men really do respond to genuine, warm smiles.

Don't flirt just to achieve a desired outcome, do it to have fun! Good flirts are easygoing. Literally open yourself up to the situation through your body language. If things are going well, reach out and touch someone! This will let them know that you're comfortable. Lightly place your hand on their arm, run your hand through your hair or lean into them as they are talking.

Keep your focus on the person you're flirting with. Really listen to what they're saying and offer compliments, where appropriate (e.g. what they are wearing, something they've said, etc.). Men enjoy flattery just as much as women do.