Definitely Not the Opera | Jul 17, 2010 | 46:16

"Is feeling guilty a terrible thing?" (Guilt)

Feeling guilty is a terrible thing. Or is it? As bad as it might feel, guilt also has the power to motivate us to do positive things. So this week we look at guilt's power to drive us to action, and why it's so strong.

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