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Beyond the city all I could see were snow speckled brown hills. I thought, "I've come to the edge of civilization."
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In the early eighties as a student at UofT, I had the honour of being
present to hear Mr. Trudeau speak at Convocation Hall. As usual, his speech
was powerful, moving, eloquent, and humorous. As a member of the Young
Liberals I was privileged to join in for a question and answer session with
the Prime Minister.
Of course I felt enormous pressure to prepare a worthy question that would
both represent our school and our party. As luck had it, I had recently
completed a course dealing with women and the constitution, and thus used my
new found knowledge to compose my question ... one related to a particular
resolution from the National Conference on Women and the Constitution.
Mr. Trudeau looked quite puzzled at my question ... and I was sure he could
tell I was trying too hard to impress, and might be way over my head.
He then stated that it was quite uncommon for young men such as I to be
aware of such important women's issues. I proceeded nervously to briefly
describe the content of the course I had taken at our university.
"Ah ... I see .... and I don't suppose you are one of a handful, or perhaps
the only male in the class?"
Yes, I admitted, I was the only male.
With a coy smile, Mr. Trudeau said "You see ... it looks as though we may
have similar motives for getting involved in politics."
Merci Monsieur Trudeau, père de notre pays, et vrai un libéral ... pouvez
vous vous reposer dans ét.
Andrew Schneider
Oakville, Ontario
It was on October 18, 1999, the 80th anniversary of the birth of Pierre
Elliott Trudeau, that I left Canada, the country he made so wonderful and
unique, to live and work in the United States.
I was back in Canada, driving on the 401 between Windsor and Toronto, just
outside London, the moment this giant of a man left this world thus offering
all Canadians as a people, the space and eternity to build upon his noble,
visionary legacy.
I thought it was extremely appropriate that at the time of Prime Minister
Trudeau's passing, that I be back home, in the compassionate and just
environment he helped create, and generously took upon himself to share with
me, amongst all people of the great land that is Canada.
In my car, my mind was made up. I was to pass by Toronto, say hello to some
old friends, then resume my journey to Montreal, my birthplace, and the home
and final resting place of its greatest citizen, Mr Trudeau. I also felt a
profound sense of loss which exacerbated the loneliness of living abroad, and
I felt I had to be close to my family in this difficult time.
That night, in my old bedroom, before sleep, my older brother Jimmy and I
discussed the life of the man who inspired us like no one else before him or
since. My view is that Canada has always been the best part of North America,
and the first nation of the world. Pierre Elliott Trudeau was the first to
convince his fellow Canadians of that fact and take genuine pride in it,
while assuming the task of educating the world on that reality.
I asked my brother if he could describe the great statesman in one word. He
hesitated. I asked him to do the same for René-Levesque, and Robert Bourassa,
among other legendary Canadian political figures. He quickly came up with
accurate descriptions for those gentlemen, both long quietly passed into
eternity. But we remained unsuccessful in summing up the late Prime Minister
in like fashion.
Long after Jimmy was sound asleep, the subject still plagued me. I could not
for the life of me find the right word to define this dazzlingly engaging
individual, and I wrestled with various intimations in the dark room.
Just before I too succumbed to sleep, I decided to cheat a little by changing
the rules. Instead, I began to attempt to define the word "Canadian" with
another word. This exercise proved to be relatively easy. I had my answer in
no time at all, and was able to sleep soundly thereafter. The word, you may
ask? I think it's obvious by now: Trudeau.
Merci, cher amie, et au revoir.
Nicolas Metaxas
Virginia, USA
How Grand a House Can Be
The day of Pierre Trudeau's funeral I fell asleep and had dream.
I dreamed Trudeau was staying in Winnipeg, in a big old house in Cresentwood, like the one on Guelph which my cousins lived in I had gone over there, he was leaving and I wanted to see if he needed help. He was cleaning the place when I arrived so I helped him. The place was run down but I could see how grand it had once been, how grand it could yet be.
We cleaned the place from the top floor to the bottom, chatting as we went as if we had known each other for years though we had never met. Finally, we got down to the great, darkened hall. Bricks had fallen from the old bare walls, breaking on the floor and covering it with coarse dust, but we set ourselves to it and picked them up enjoying the job, in and of itself.
We were almost done I turned and realized that Pierre was gone. I was alone in the great, dark hall.
And all at once I realized it was a dream.
I woke up and marveled at how strange it was to be talking to Trudeau as if I knew him. I never doubted him at all but for a while I wondered at the house, trying to figure out what the dream had meant. Why the house? A once grand house that I so wanted to make grand again?
Then it hit me all at once. The house was me. The house was Canada.
Thank you, Pierre, for showing us how grand a house can be.
Anthony A. Hart
On the night of September 28th I left work late and made my way to the
National Arts Centre in Ottawa to meet a friend for the evening orchestra
performance of an all-Beethoven concert program. I had not heard news all
day and was not aware of the death of Pierre Trudeau.
As the house lights dimmed, and Mr. Zukerman came on the stage, a public
address voice filled the room, announcing Pierre Trudeau's passing that
afternoon at approximately 3:00 p.m., and that the first, and unscheduled,
piece of the evening would be dedicated to his memory. There was an audible
gasp in the audience, as others like myself took the brunt of the news for
the first time. My eyes filled with tears as the melancholy strains of Elgar
surrounded us in our collective sorrow.
It was a moment suspended in time, and I will never forget the flood of
emotions palpable in that hall. I remember thinking... this is a dividing
moment. An unfathomable Before and After for Canada. We will never again be
the same. It seemed so impossible to imagine the country even going forward
without him - our icon, brother, parent, mentor, leader, friend and hero.
He was a compelling man, a patriot without rival, a citizen of the world, a
whole human being of immense power and grace.
I came to Canada totally by chance circumstance in 1978, a young, idealistic
and mostly naive American with a lot to learn about life and the world and
myself. I fell in love with this country on sight, and came to be in awe of
the legendary Canadian leader who spoke with such conviction, strength and
compassion. He was truly larger than life, and inspired such a passionate
pride in me for my adopted country that I cannot think of Canada without
also calling him to mind. I believe he connected land, people, spirit and
pride in an unprecedented way. And I am sad to say that, although there are
many great Canadians among us today, I see no one his equal in stimulating
and inspiring and uniting the people of this nation.
I have been on the Hill quite a lot these last few days. The atmosphere
there is solemn, but charged with meaning. The roses, the gathering of
people who linger at the flame, the weekend vigil of over 50,000 to say
farewell. It is a bitter loss.
This afternoon, I heard Justin Trudeau speak at his father's funeral, and
was greatly moved at his courageous words. He hoisted the torch... It's up
to all of us now. It is my deepest hope that Mr. Trudeau's legacy will
continue to be a beacon, and that each one of us will stand tall and proud
to uphold our brightest vision of Canada, the true north strong and free,
with a compassionate open hand held out to the world. I for one, will
never, ever forget him. He lives on in all of us.
Meredith Kost
Ottawa, Ontario
When my daughter was a young girl I took her to Ottawa to see the seat of government. As we stood on Parliament Hill looking toward Peace Tower, she seemed to be lost in thought. After a time she tugged at my sleeve and with whispered reverence said, "Mummy does God live here?" "No," I answered, "This is where Pierre Elliott Trudeau works." She pondered this for a moment and then with all the
assurance borne of a child's sudden insight said, "I didn't know God's name was Pierre Elliott Turdeau."
Cathy Converse
I haven't been able to work today. Actually I haven't been able to work
since Thursday afternoon (Sept.28). I was driving to an appointment in
downtown Victoria, turned on the radio (to CBC, of course) and heard the
last seconds of a newscast announcing Pierre Trudeau's passing.
I stopped. In the middle of rush hour traffic in the middle of the road.
I cried. Luckily the traffic light ahead turned red.
The driver next to me looked at me in amazement, and through the open
windows of both cars he asked if I was ok. I nodded. I shrugged. I said:
"Mr. Trudeau is dead." Emotions raced across his face, from concern to
uncomprehension to disbelief to realization. He turned and stared ahead,
then leaned over and turned on his radio. The light turned to green and
we both sat there for a second. Horns blared behind us, jolting us back.
We pulled ahead, and as he signalled to turn he looked at me once more,
this time with a sad, knowing smile.
In the four days since, I've felt the mourning of my countrymen mix with
my own. Many others have expressed Mr. Trudeau's impact on this nation
with elegance far more exquisite than I could.
So let me say, simply, that in my life it was impossible to not have
been affected by "Pierre". After all, I came of age in Montreal in the
late 1960s and 1970s.
And I met him once, when I was a journalism student in Vancouver in the
early 1980s. It was October; I'd been in the program six weeks. I was on
fire with the desire to dig out truth and consequences. Our entire class
was sent out to document his visit to our college, all of us knowing too
well how he could strip reporters into pieces.
Of course all the city's major media was on hand too. I found myself in
a scrum as Mr. Trudeau was getting on an elevator. To this day I don't
know how it happened, but as the door was about to close, I stepped
through the crowd and into the elevator. I huddled, trying to be
invisible in a corner, while Mr. Trudeau talked to the college
president. As the elevator stopped and Mr. Trudeau was about to leave,
he noticed me, my notebook and camera at hand.
"Did you want to ask me something?" he smiled. The doors opened to TV
cameras and flashbulbs. I was too stunned to speak, but managed to lift
my camera slightly. "Ahh, a picture then," he said. "Will this do?" He
took the college official's hand to shake it. I took the picture. He
smiled again and said: "Never be afraid to speak out."
Thank you Monsieur. I'm not.
Caryl Worden
Editor Cottage Magazine
During a Canadian Crossroads International cultural exchange in the early eighties, our family took Joseph Mutisiya, a Kenyan elementary teacher, to a Liberal rally in our local high school in Strathroy,
Ontario.
Seeing Joseph's obvious pleasure at being in the presence of our Prime Minister, I passed a note to our sitting member, Ralph Ferguson, requesting his intervention to enable Joseph to personally greet
Pierre Trudeau. Much to our surprise and delight, Mr. Trudeau agreed. He not only exchanged greetings and handshakes with our family and Joseph, but informed Joseph that he had recently visited his
homeland and commented on discussions held with "your President" Daniel Arup-Moi.
Joseph was overwhelmed by this experience and commented numerous times how fortunate we were to live in a truly democratic country where common farmers were able to shake the hand of their Prime
Minister. This would not have been dreamed of in his homeland of Kenya.
Later that summer, while travelling on behalf of the Canadian Foodgrains Bank, I had the opportunity to visit Joseph and his rural school near Machakos in central Kenya. Imagine my surprise upon entering
his modest two-room home to see the photo I had taken of him shaking hands with Pierre Trudeau in the place of honour on the table!
I have often thought of the tremendously positive impact that Prime Minister Trudeau's brief, but sincere, greetings had had on Joseph Mutisiya, his family, and his students. Canada will always have a
special place in the thoughts of Joseph and his community. ( I was made an honourary member of the Camba tribe and still cherish the bow and quiver of arrows that were presented to me by the
community's elders.)
This week, while discussing the life of our late Prime Minister, I was reminded by our now grown son, Alan, of a similar positive impact this occasion had on his perception of his country and its former Prime
Minister.
In retrospect, I wish I had informed Pierre Trudeau of the impact of his actions. This no longer a possibility, I feel compelled to share it with my fellow Canadians. Thank you, CBC.
Don & Carol Langford
As a young married couple in the late 1960's, my husband and I were
neighbours of Margaret Sinclair's sister, Heather, and her husband,
Tom.
Heather and I had been high school classmates. One afternoon in
Heather's kitchen, I noticed a newspaper photograph of the Prime Minister,
Mr.Trudeau, attached to the refrigerator. It had been taken at an Ottawa
restaurant and the caption remarked on the unidentified "beautiful young
lady" who was his dinner companion. Heather somewhat hesitantly explained
that the picture was actually on her fridge because it was a photograph of
her sister Margaret. I soon learned that Margaret and Pierre's
relationship, although successfully kept secret from the press, was
actually very serious and had been a long lasting one. Margaret had met
him while she had been on a family vacation several years
before. Margaret's father, Jimmy Sinclair, had been a leading Liberal and
member of Parliament and I assume had known Mr. Trudeau for some time.
Margaret was still a young girl then, but had been smitten by his charm and
did not forget him. When he came to Vancouver as the Liberal candidate
for Prime Minister, Margaret was in the front of a group of young women in
the lobby of the Vancouver Hotel. She jumped forward and kissed him the
first of the crowds of young women who would be taken by Trudeaumania.
Margaret moved to Ottawa and their friendship "blossomed." The world was
finally let in on the secret when they were married.
Unfortunately for us, for the rest of the following week our street had press photographers lurking behind every bush and shrub in hopes that the newlyweds would visit which they never did.
My condolences to the whole family. Farewell to a legendary Canadian.
Anne Ridsdale Mott
Vancouver, BC
As I prepare to head down the hill, red rose and camera in hand, for the funeral of Pierre Trudeau, I'll add my thoughts to the pile.
I first heard of Trudeau's death last Thursday evening as I headed home on St Catherine Street through the cold. A woman jumped out at me, held a microphone in my face and asked, "What is your reaction to the death of Mr. (Bouchard? I thought hopefully) Trudeau?"
The question seemed to go in slow motion. A quick thinker would have said, "You know, this is the first I've heard of this, I'm sorry, I don't have any reaction." But, feeling obliged to perform, I stood there like an idiot, and said at least twice "Well, gee, I can't think of anything to say." Then I said, "He was a legend."
I could just feel the woman's heart sinking, and hear her thinking to herself, "Oh, sh--, we can't use this…"
"Is he going to be buried from Notre Dame?" I asked.
The woman said, "Oh, I've no idea."
Thinking I'd wasted enough of their time, I said brightly, "Well, I must go get film for my camera!"
What an idiot…
My considered reaction:
He was one of a kind a charismatic Canadian.
He had the kind of charisma and singularity that money can't buy, but only money can give expression to.
All told, he was the greatest made-for-TV movie this country ever produced.
May he rest in peace.
Millie Stanton
I grew up in SE Texas. Lived in Colorado for 2 years before the draft got too close for comfort. As a ski bum I looked for something in
Canada that looked like Colorado. Immigration said no to Banff. On the map Calgary looks like Denver. However on Feb. 18, 1968, when I
arrived there, it looked like what Ft. Worth Texas would look like if it had been frozen solid since the mid 50's. I rented a depressing
basement room and found a job. On my first opportunity I went to the top floor of the tallest building I could find (the Husky tower wasn't
finished yet) to see the horizon. Beyond the city all I could see were snow speckled brown hills. I thought, "I've come to the edge of
civilization." In early spring I started hearing Trudeau's name. I'd been fairly a-political in the states. From my perspective the US
govt., no matter who ran it, wanted to kill me.
My first glimpses of Trudeau on TV grabbed my attention. "This might be a cool country after all" was my thought. Candidates running for
leadership of the Liberal party looked like they were also from the mid 50's, accept for Trudeau.
The more I saw of him the more fascinate I became. I'd never seen anyone like him. Kennedy, had he lived, might have come close, though I
think Trudeau was the more brilliant.
When the real election campaign happened I fell in love with all the candidates. They were each so distinct and straight forward, and none
of them was remotely interested in sending me to Viet Nam. But Trudeau totally eclipsed all comers. My only worry was that a country that
had a major city that looked like Ft. Worth frozen in the 50's might not want this guy as a leader. I wouldn't be allowed to vote for
another 3 years. He won big time, of course, and my love for my new country grew in leaps and bounds.
I had 3 almost close encounters with Trudeau over the years. Two of them totally chance. The first was on purpose when a bunch of us
counter culture types went to the Calgary airport to see him arrive during the 68 campaign. The second was on my first trip to Ottawa. I
got lost while walking around town. I stumbled onto the parliament building. It was mid winter and everything was buried in new snow. It
was one of the most magical things I'd ever seen. I had to see if I could get inside. I did, and literally stumbled into question period in
session. Trudeau and Stanfield were finger wagging and going head to head from across the floor. "Is this for real?" I thought, "I just
stumbled into the government while its actually happening! I AM in the right country!" I sat there for hours.
Years later I was in Ottawa again, this time on Canada Day. I was with my wife and our first two children in our arms. I'm quite sure we
were watching a street parade. At least something was holding our attention in one spot for a considerable time. At one point while looking
around I noticed that Trudeau was standing on a balcony a few floors directly over our heads holding two of his sons in his arms watching
the same event. He and his children had probably been there as long as we had. Once again I marveled at the simplicity of such chance
encounters with a nation's leader.
I've been a Canadian citizen for many years now. I don't think I've voted liberal in a federal election more than once since I gained that
right. That would have certainly been while Trudeau was still party leader. But not until his death last week had I reflected on how much
he influenced my citizenship. His stepping into the federal arena as I stepped into the country not only assured me that I had come to the
right place, but over the years continued to build my pride in that decision, especially on a global scale.
My biggest regret is that I didn't take advantage of one of those chance encounters and make the effort to meet and talk with him. I envy
those who did.
I can't imagine we'll see his like again in my lifetime, but I'm convinced it is possible. His passing has brought so much of his character
to our attention that those who lead or aspire to lead can't help but take notice. Not that his qualities can be easily emulated, but those
who by nature are visionary, and able to freely, clearly, and courageously express their thoughts should take heart. It is overwhelmingly
obvious that these are the qualities a nation longs for.
Jack E. Bearden
Harbourville, NS
On Sunday night, in Vancouver Canada, my husband Peter and I went to see
Neil Young in concert, with Beck opening up. We tried to remember how many
times we'd seen Neil in concert. For me, since 1970, in his always
interesting incarnations, this was probably my 6th or 7th time. For Peter,
slightly less.
Tonight was different from all the other times. Collectively we felt heavy.
The air was heavy. Thousands of us were smiling more deeply into each
other's faces. It's Sunday, we're supposedly rested from our weekend, but
each of us looked wearier, grayer, sadder. Why? What was it?
Beck mentioned that this was the last of a 32-gig tour, thanking Neil for
the ride. Song after song of Beck's was somber, slow, melodic. We started to
understand: he was saluting our collective Canadian spirit. Beck had felt it
too: we were all experiencing a kind of group choke that one feels together
at a funeral.
Neil came on. Rock n Roll Hall of Famer Donald Duck Dunn supported him on
guitar, Jim Keltner who played for every legend on Earth supported Neil on
drums, an admirably introduced "songwriter" handled the keyboards, Neil's
30-year partner was on bass, Neil's sister and wife were on back-up vocals.
Neil was at first puzzled by his audience; you could see that. A proverbial
pin could have been heard dropping during his songs, yet between them we
rose en masse in standing ovation, roaring our salutes. You could see he was
trying to figure us out. Why were thousands of usually unhibited raucous
Vancouverites so subdued, listening more intently than usual to his every
lyric? What was so different about this audience's suddenly plaintive
wailing bursts of applause?
Halfway through the concert, during a lull while Neil held a confused look,
tuning his guitar, a man in his 50s behind my head echoed down through the
rows of seats overhead directly into Neil's ears: "Welcome home, Neil....."
With that, our crowd of thousands did not make a sound. Instead we held our
breaths in silence, making sure that Neil heard what the man was saying for
us all.
Neil continued staring down at the neck of his guitar, finishing his tuning
work. He led his band into an amazingly energetic, passionate performance of
"Words" -- jamming with emphasis on the repeated line, "words....between the
lines of hatred.." The song's anger became a sound of victory, and the
meaning was clear: words of peace could strengthen us more than those of
prejudice.
With the finale thrash chord, the arena full of us flew up to our feet,
cheering, screaming. Neil had understood us! He lifted his bottle of water,
flashed us his trademark leer, and said, "HERE'S TO CANADA!"
It was a full five minutes of cheering our agreement back upon him.
As usual, in a minimum expression of words, Neil Young had said so much for
us: Our Prime Minister Pierre Elliott Trudeau was gone, and with him, our
spiritual rebirth. Pierre Trudeau had taken Canada's creation, the United
Nations, and, in actions and words of understanding, had gone round the
world visiting those member nations too long frozen in dangerous words of
political prejudice, to simply spread words of peace and trade. Despite
demands from America and the rest of NATO powers in those years, Prime
Minister Trudeau insisted that Canada's role was that of peacewatchers,
peacekeepers, negotiators, arrogantly persisting to arrange mutual visits
and trade with countries NATO was boycotting, keeping our international
presence for peace, and that is just what we've become.
Neil Young said it just so: Goodbye, and thank you, Mr. Trudeau, was what we
are all trying to say. What we all feel by Trudeau's passing is:
HERE'S TO CANADA!
Ruth Lowther Lalonde
Surrey, British Columbia
With the death of Pierre Trudeau we are witnessing the passing of a
remarkable leader. He had a special sense of humour as witnessed by the
story below.
As a student organiser in Ottawa I was involved in running a charity shoe
shine called "Shinerama." First-year university students fanned out across
the city to do a two day blitz. The challenge was to generate some free
publicity to kick things off. By chance we had a contact in the Prime
Ministers office. Trudeau had agreed to a shoe shine.
We found two pretty first year students and headed up to the lawn of
parliament hill photographers in tow. There was Pierre who broke away from a
meeting to join us. They shone his shoes and a bit of his socks too!! OK he
said my turn. Then he got down and shone the shoes of the two girls. His
staff loved it. Great retraining program they said. It made the front page
of all the papers next day.
Trudeau was a laugh at times and we loved him for it.
Regards,
John Madden
Mississauga, Ontario
It's a warm and liquid night here in Ottawa. I've just come from Parliament
Hill where I joined thousands of fellow Canadians in saying goodbye to
Pierre Elliot Trudeau. As I walked along the length of the line of people
waiting three hours to pay their respects, I met many friends and even
family standing in the dark. Togther we chatted and told our Trudeau
stories. My sister, a teacher, whom I came across in the line, carried two
photos of her meeting Trudeau with her junior kindergarten class nearly 25
years ago. Trudeau had stopped to talk with her and her class for nearly 15
minutes that autumn day. Why? Because he had a four year old and he enjoyed
sharing four-year-olds' stories.
I have three Trudeau stories.
In 1968, when I was 17, I went down town to Trudeau's campaign headquarters
which was in a small building at the corner of O'Connor and Laurier
Streets. I volunteered to help on his leadership campaign and made placards
and banners (P.E.T. is our Pet). I organized my grade 13 class and got them
to attend "spontaneous" rallies and we followed Trudeau where ever he went.
I was always at the back of the crowd and never did get to see him. It was
a wonderful and thrilling time to be 17 and when he won the leadership, we
went downtown to the Chateau Laurier (at least that's how I remember it).
There I laid eyes on him for the first time, or at least the top of his
head. That's when I learned that he was not the tallest man in the world.
Later the next summer, myself and my best friend we working for the
Department of Public Works measuring government buildings. It was the
perfect summer job for a number of architecture students from Carleton and
Laval Universities. We measured all the rooms in a building and drew up
plans if they were needed. This was all part of something called "Revenue
Dependency" where Public Works would know how much square footage they had
and then be able to charge the various tenant Departments rent. My friend
Clark and I lucked out by being asked to meaure Rideau Hall (the Micheners
residing), all its out buildings, 24 Sussex and Harrington Lake. Back in
1968, I can assure you that security was not what it is today. We were
given free reign to walk about the house of the PM and measure with our
fifty-foot tapes. Before long we were in Trudeau's bedroom. This was at the
very height of Trudeaumania, so you can imagine how amazed we were. Before
long we were looking in his closets (to measure them of course!) and
pulling out his dresser drawers. I know this sounds rather sacreligious,
but there Clark was parading around in Trudeau's knee length brown leather
coat (which we had seen him wear on TV. Though I was much bigger than the
PM, I tried to slip on his running shoes. We just stared at each other and
couldn't believe where we were and how incredibly bold we were being. We
hung up the clothes and sat and bounced on his bed. The room was decorated
in pink and blue flowered wallpaper which was still a hold over from its
previous occupant, Mrs. Pearson. Apparently the Pearsons slept apart and I
remember Clark and I secretly thrilling to this special knowledge. Beside
Trudeau's bed on a night table sat a black telephone with no rotary dial.
Instead it was emlazoned with a large gold crown in the middle. This we
were sure was a hot line to Parliament Hill, maybe even the Kremlin. But
the piece de resistance was what was on his bed. On top of his pillow, he
had a plush toy tiger with a zipper on the belly. Pyajama bags were popular
back then with little kids. We unzipped the tiger and with out a word of
a lie, he had his PJs in there.
We ended the advenure by doing chin-ups on a chin-up bar in his bathroom,
though since I was 6'-4", the bar was already under my chin. I will always remember hanging out in his room that afternoon when he was
away. Today I would surely respect his privacy more, but back then in that
room something came over us and we acted like two groupies who find
themselves alone in Mick Jagger's walk-in-closet.
The last story took place a few years later, in 1973. My entire family was
attending my brother's wedding in Regina at the RCMP chapel. We were eleven
of the most fanatical Liberal-loving, Trudeau-swooning Catholic Easterners
you would ever want to meet. We stayed one night at the Regina Inn where it
turned out Trudeau was staying as well. This was at a time when he was
particularly reviled by everyone west of Batoche. When he came off the
elevator into the lobby the next morning, we were all waiting for him my
three sisters, my two brothers, father, mother, uncle and even grandmother.
The ladies screamed, the men clapped and cheered and for one brief moment,
Trudeau wore a look of complete surprise which seemed to say "Well, maybe
my fortunes out west are changing for the better."
To put him in perspective for my daughters, I tell them that there have
only been four truly great Prime Ministers of Canada who have had a real
vision for this land and where it may go. Sir John A. Macdonald, William
Lyon MacKenzie King, Lester "Mike" Pearson and Pierre Elliot Trudeau.
I will surely miss him.
David H. O'Malley
Ottawa
I was a young lawyer working hard to build a practice but felt I was shorting
my kids. Consequently, several times a year, I made it a point to take the
family of vacations so the kids could get to know their father. This was one
of those times in July of 1974. My wife, our three children and my mother
drove off to Cape Cod and Maine to spend time together.
I had the habit (a bad one) to stay in nearly constant touch with my office
at least once a day. My secretary told me that one of my clients desperately
needed to meet with me. The client was going to Wales and was leaving from
the Toronto airport. We were nearly at the end of our vacation and he and his
wife were leaving in three days. I thought - what the heck - it is only a
little out of the way and we could see some different scenery if we went back
through Canada, through Quebec City, Montreal and then Toronto.
We headed out from our ocean side cabin in Maine and we were off to St. Anne
Shrine, Quebec City and on to Toronto. The kids were remarkably good and we
arrived in Toronto the weekend of July 4. I drove around the airport and
allowed the young ones to pick the hotel because they were so good. We
checked into the Holiday Inn and I was off to the airport for the meeting
with my clients. The work completed, I went back to the Hotel. The kids
wanted to go swimming and I readily agreed, Down the elevator to the pool. I
dove in and was aimlessly swimming laps. I came up from a dive and was head
to head with someone. I moved out of the way somewhat apologetically. I
thought, boy does he look familiar.
I looked around the pool area and something caught my eye. A man dressed in a
suit. I got out of the water and walked around the pool keeping an eye on
him. He seemed to be watching the man I nearly bumped heads with. My
curiosity got the best of me and I approached the man in the suit. I
identified myself and made idle conversation. He still was watching the
swimmer, who had now moved to the hot tub or Jacuzzi (I have forgotten which)
with my three kids in tow. I said he sure looked familiar. He said he ought
to... He was the Prime Minister of Canada.
The man in the suit turned out to be the Mountie that had met Trudeau at the
airport when he arrived on the last leg of his reelection campaign. The
election was the following day. I was shocked at the lack of an entourage of
security. I was further shocked to hear the Prime Minister had flown
commercial.
I then met Pierre Elliot Trudeau. We engaged in conversation concerning my
own Canadian heritage and I informed him my grandmother was Desany Trudeau
who was born in St. Michel near Montreal. He flatly stated we were related
and named ancestors I did not know. He did this in short blurbs of
conversation, between conversations with my kids and other water splashes. He
sat with my mother and talked to her about Trudeaus in Toledo. He was
friendly, engaging and sincerely interested in my family.
I can understand the outpouring of sentiments I have witnessed on Canadian
television. He truly captured our hearts. The Canadian garden has lost one of
it's most magnificent roses.
John D. Garand
Perrysburg, Ohio
I'm an anglo and I've lived in Quebec my entire life.
However, my most memorable encounter with Mr.Trudeau's legacy took place in British Columbia. I was visiting Seattle last summer and I was returning to Canada via the BC border crossing. It must have been about two in the morning when
our bus reached the border. The Canada Customs officer, upon seeing that my passport was issued in Quebec, immediately started speaking to me in French. Though I explained to him that my first language was English, the officer still wanted
to speak to me in French (I guess he wanted the practice).
So there we were: two anglophones at the BC border crossing, three thousand miles from Quebec, speaking to each other entirely in Canada's other official language.
I can think of no better way to illustrate the long-lasting and widespread impact of Mr.Trudeau's policies of official bilingualism in this country. He brought us together in a way that no else has ever come close to.
Terence Bowman
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
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