Meeting Pierre Trudeau
In front of me was another girl who asked Mr. Trudeau for his
autograph, as he passed by. I said, "Well, how about a kiss.... it
wouldn't take so long?" He grinned and said, "Yes, how about a kiss?"
as he planted one on my cheek.
Claire Sutton
Winnipeg, Manitoba |
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As I sit at my computer writing this, tears are streaming down my face. I have been very affected by Mr Trudeau's death. Why, I ask myself? Perhaps because it seems like the end of an era? Perhaps because as a young immigrant
in 1972, I was swept up into the Trudeau ethos and accepted his vision of Canada? Perhaps because I had the opportunity to meet him several times, the last being in 1980, the week before the election which returned him to power
and when I was in the final weeks of pregnancy? He was interested in how my pregnancy had gone and wished me well for the delivery. I told him "If we have a boy, we'll name him after you." He laughed and thanked me. Our son
is called Austin Pierre Enright.
There are many lasting legacies but I think one of the strongest is our Canadian identity. Wherever I travel around the world, people are so envious of Canada as a place of tolerance and peace. They automatically assume that we all
speak both French and English and find this amazing. It is the perception even though not completely true but we certainly have come a long way in our bilingualism from the days of 'Cornflakes' in French!
A light has gone out in Canada. We will not see his like again.
Angela Enright
Victoria, British Columbia
When my daughter phoned me to tell me of the death of Mr. Trudeau I immediately felt a deep sense of loss and I confess my eyes filled with tears. I thought back to the time when he visited Courtenay on Vancouver Island during a
campaign in the late 70s, and I forget the exact date; but I joined the throngs jostling to see him, and his wife Margaret, even briefly, and couldn't believe my luck in being at the right time in the right place as he came by, shaking hands
and laughing. I thrust my hand in front of him and to my delight and surprise he took it and smiled; I shall never forget thinking to myself, "One day I'll be able to boast that I shook Pierre Elliott Trudeau's hand." I am so proud that
I am able to claim my fame from that fleeting moment, albeit one that brought tears to my eyes when I heard that he had gone and left us behind.
Audrey Gwendoline
Now of Chilliwack
I was sitting in the back row at a Liberal Convention and Pierre Trudeau
came in and sat right next to me. The next thing I knew there were TV cameras
flashing all around me. I had braces on my teeth and just beamed at him and
panicked when he started talking to me! He looked right at me and asked what
a Brit was doing at a Liberal Convention. I blurted out that I was a recent
convert after hearing him in Vancouver and he beamed and asked me more
questions about myself! As he was about to leave I asked if I could have my
photo taken with him and he said yes. That picture is on my desk to this day
and I have worked hard for his party ever since!
He was an incredible man; blessed with extraordinary intelligence and a
vision for Canada which has made a difference to so many. I was truly
fortunate to have met him.
Maureen Lyons
When I was 16 I watched the Liberal Leadership race quite by accident.
When my sister and I saw Pierre, we were hooked. When the election was
called, we volunteered every day to stuff mailboxes for the local
Liberal candidate. We wore those bright orange sweatshirts that had
Trudeau's face outlined on the front.
I fondly remember the day I met the prime minister. We were invited to
a rally in our tiny election headquarters on Redwood Ave. in Winnipeg
and Mr. Trudeau was there. All the "teen" workers were invited into
the back room for a special meeting. There were about 12 of us, and
when Mr. Trudeau entered the room, it was as if an electric current
were running through us. I shook his hand and looked into his amazing
blue eyes.
After the rally, I stood on the wooden steps of the hall we had been
in. In front of me was another girl who asked Mr. Trudeau for his
autograph, as he passed by. I said "Well, how about a kiss.... it
wouldn't take so long?" He grinned and said "Yes, how about a kiss?"
as he planted one on my cheek. I will never forget it. I was only 16.
Prime Minister Trudeau made me proud to be a Canadian.
Claire Sutton
Winnipeg
In May of 1978 I accompanied a group of Isle Madame District High School
students on an Educational Tour of the National Capital Region.As part
of our tour to Ottawa and Quebec we had acquired tickets (standing room
only) to attend the second game of the Stanley Cup Finals between the
Canadiens and the Boston Bruins and chartered a bus to take us to the
Montreal Forum. While waiting to be picked up by our chartered bus by
the West Block on Parliament Hill, some of my students noticed a gray
limo driving to and stopping at the west exit of Parliament 's Centre
Block. Realizing that it was M. Trudeau's vehicle they ran up hoping to
meet him. When he did come out he did address our students inquiring as
to what school they attended and in what part of Canada. When they
indicated that they were students of Isle Madame District High School in
Arichat, Nova Scotia, Prime Minister Trudeau quickly pointed out that
they were from Cape Breton and were from Allan MacEachen's riding of
Cape Breton Highlands-Canso.
While conversing with our students, it
became evident that he was anxious to move on and one student suggested
that perhaps the Prime Minister was rushing to the airport to catch a
flight to Montreal in order to take in Game 2 of the Stanley Cup
Finals. M. Trudeau conceded that our audacious student was indeed
correct. Our fine young man suggested that, since the Prime Minister
always sat behind the Canadiens' bench, our group would appreciate his
coming out to the lobby immediately behind the Habs' bench at the first
intermission so thaty they could have photos taken with him. He
indicated that he would and he did. Our students were very impressed
and left the Montreal Forum not quite knowing what was the highlight of
their visit, Guy Lafleur's winning goal in overtime or meeting a very
friendly and accommodating Prime Minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau, a man
that so many referred to as aloof and arrogant. To this day when I meet
any of those students, their encounter with M. Trudeau remains one of
the great moments of their lives.
Dave Forgeron
I thank God for the opportunity to meet with Mr Trudeau. During my time in public service we always had a sence of duty to our nation, serve people, and do your duty for the good and well being of all concerned.
Always focusing on unity and justice. Our dear beloved leader Mr Piere Elliot Trudeau taught us well.
The last time I saw Mr Trudeau at Torotno 1993, when he came to speek about his book "memoirs", he was a little more older, a little slower, but had the same dynamic leadership command and spirit. After the
speech and reception he walked through the crowd, while taking the escalator up I met him at the step, shook hands I told that my wife Gloria and I had just celeberated our 25th wedding anniversary, this was
significant since we wewre married the nsame year he was first elected as the Prime Minister in 1968, and when we stared our married life in Toronto. He looked at me and smiled. That look on his eyes had so
much love and affection, such deep unconditional love, it was hard to describe in words the electrification and feelings in my heart. I felt like an innocent child looking at the loving eyes of his father. He
autographed my book and gave it to me. We travelled up on the escalator standing close to each other no words spoken, but the silence described every thing I am worthy to be standing beside my leader, mentor,
brother, friend. Just before stepping out of the elevator he took a glance over his shoulder looked at me and smiled again, then disappeared with security the men, I stood there quite alone tears were rolling off my
eyes, it was a good bye and farewell to my dear friend, brother and our great leader. This was truly a great human being who put into practice his spiritual beliefs - respect and equality for all peoples.
Peter Mohanty
Toronto
One of my very earliest memories is of that election night in 1968 when Mr.
Trudeau first became Prime Minister. Although I was not entirely sure why
the grown-ups were cheering so loudly at the black and white TV screen, I
knew that something wonderful had happened. And it had.
When we were sixteen, my best friend and I decided to take the train to
Ottawa to "see Mr. Trudeau." We wanted to tell him what a great job he was
doing. We never got past the security guard outside his office, but we had
fun trying. Two years later, in 1980, we got a chance to vote for him.
Elections have never been the same since he retired.
A few years ago, I finally got to meet Mr. Trudeau in person. This was in
the Co-op in Pond Inlet, Nunavut, a remote Inuit community on Baffin Island,
when he came ashore with a group of passengers from the cruise ship on which
he was travelling. "He's been here before," my Inuk co-worker told me. "He
knows us." And he did: remembering many of the people he had met on a
previous visit to Pond many years before, shaking hands and exchanging
memories of the fish that got away on during that earlier visit. I was
impressed not only by his obvious love for the Arctic and its inhabitants
but also by the enormous affection and respect the Tununmiut felt for him.
He was so much more than just another qallunaat on a photo op. He was a
friend returning after a time away.
We all knew Mr. Trudeau ailing and elderly, but it was still such a shock to
lose him. A lot of people over the last few days have tried to "sum up" why
he was so important to our nation's history, culture and ethos, how he
shaped a generation, or made us what we are today. I can't seem to get all
his accomplishments or his legacy into perspective yet. I miss him too much.
I tried to explain to my daughter why I was going to stay home from work
this morning to watch a funeral on TV. She was born long after Mr. Trudeau
left office and doesn't really understand what a prime minister is, much
less the kind of Prime Minister Mr. Trudeau was.
"He was a great man," I told her. "He was a great Canadian. He was my hero."
Helen Ferrigan
Yellowknife, NWT
I belive it was either 1968 or 1969. My younger sister and I went to the
CNE for the day not knowing that Trudeau would be there. When we arrived at
the CNE we heard that he would be there in the afternoon at the bandshell to
give a speech. We decided to go and try to meet him.
I was sixteen and my sister was 10. We were among the the big crowd and M.
Trudeau was a distance away and my sister wanted to meet him. In French I
called out his name and said something to the effect of "come over here."
He heard me and did come over and I introduced him to my sister who just
stood there in awe. We spoke in French. He asked me what part of Montreal
I came from but I told him that I was born and raised in Toronto but that my
parents came from Quebec and that French was what we spoke at home. At the
end of the conversation he mess up my sister's hair and smiled. I did ask
if we could sit up front so we could hear him better and he said yes.
Talking with him was like talking with an uncle, I never once felt
uncomfortable. He gave my sister and I his autograph, I don't know where
they are now. I will always remeber that day and his smile and the look on
sister's face when he came over to talk to us.
Yvonne Penney (nee Robert)
Toronto, Ontario
Trudeaumania in Yellowknife 1968
I was sad to hear of Pierre Trudeau's death. I guess it was because I was one of those "Trudeau-maniacs" back in 1967-68. His presence faded out of my life early in the 70's after I became a wife, mother and an Albertan.
Born and raised in Ottawa, I was no stranger as to how the political wheel worked and how dominant that wheel was in Ottawa. I was 20 years old and wanted to get away from the pompous and
political government city scene.
In 1967 that opportunity arose when Yellowknife was named the capital city of the NWT. I worked for the office of the Government of the Northwest Territories in Ottawa at that time and took
part in the enormous move from Ottawa to Yellowknife. I felt like a real pioneer and still many years later, look back at that venture as an exciting time of my life that opened many doors for me.
Shortly after Mr. Trudeau's election in 1968 he visited Yellowknife. Many admirers including myself greeted him at the airport. When he spoke, his words portrayed a compassionate, honest man
who had a vision of an independent great Canada. He told it like it was. There were no double meanings or an overwhelming urge to find a dictionary to understand his words. How refreshing. He
was truly an excellent orator, easily understood, who made me very proud to be a Canadian. I was hooked--Trudeaumania set in. And I was also enamoured that his birthday was in October, like
mine. We shared the Libra sign.
After his speech, he was escorted to a private luncheon. His devoted fans left to go home or over to the Yellowknife Hotel to hover around. We hoped to catch another glimpse of the infamous
Prime Minister before he left our little northern town.
Although arrangements for his overnight stay was hush hush, we presumed that he would be put up in the in Yellowknife Hotel as it was the only (respectable) hotel in Yellowknife in 1967. Where
else would the government officials put him? But my roommate's suspicious behaviour made me interrogative. She was the secretary to one of the Commissioner's assistants involved in Mr.
Trudeau's travel arrangements. So, after much coaxing she spilled the beans about where Mr. Trudeau's real accommodations were going to be. He was to stay in our apartment building, the
Franklin House, in the apartment next door to ours.
I remember frequently glancing out my apartment window waiting for him to arrive from his busy afternoon. When he finally did arrive, he dashed from his official car into the building. With
camera in hand, I ran out into the hall and with heart pounding waited for him to come up the staircase to the 3rd level. As his footsteps drew louder, I almost chickened out as I was extremely shy
in my youth. I was concerned that he might just ignore my presence and fly by me, causing my face to flush bright red which it did so well in those days. When he came around the corner, he
looked eager to get away from the limelight for a while. So, I quietly asked him if I could take his picture, half expecting him to say "not now". But, instead, he stopped--nodded a yes and patiently
stood still while I nervously focused in on him. Through the lens I noticed a shyness about him I didn't realize existed. It surprised me. Not only were our astrological signs the same, we also shared
that annoying personality trait of shyness. I was overwhelmed with great respect for him as I admired how he could get up and speak so fluently in front of hordes of people. He was charismatic
indeed.
In the years to follow, although I didn't agree with all of his politics and ways--after all I was living in Lougheed's Conservative land--I did admire his ability to make, act on, and stand by his
decisions despite criticism. I don't think he was the type to make a decision without extensive consideration. After all, he was a Libra--and Libra's do not like to make decisions.They always have to
look at the pros and cons over and over. But once they make a decision, there is no holding back.
Farewell, Mr. Trudeau. It was a pleasure to meet you!
Linda M. Rickey
Calgary, AB
Mr. Trudeau has been a neighbour of mine for many years and I saw him coming and going frequently. As a polititian and leader I have always believed him to be the very best.
Several summers ago he joined us at the Dog Park (Percy Walter Park) with Michel's black labrador dog on a beautiful, warm, sunny afternoon. He sat with us all, he was one of us in jeans and
shirt-sleeves and we laughed and talked about his dog, commenting on the various canines running around us. He asked me, "and which dog is yours?" and I pointed over to the very stately and
aloof afghan hound. "Ahh" he said, and nodded his head in approval, then gave me that wonderful look which said it all. I will always remember that happy occasion.
To the Trudeau family I just want to offer all my heartfelt sympathy to you for your loss and thank you for your generosity, kindness and graciousness in your most very difficult time, for the sharing of the
passing of a very great and wonderful man.
Sincerely,
Jacqueline Goldsmith
I met Trudeau during the 1976 Montreal Olympics. I was a hostess at the
Games and he came several times with all three boys. While he sat in the VIP
Section of the Olympic pool, he attended alone with his children. No nanny,
no bodyguards, no paparazzi, nothing to indicate he was the leader of our
nation. The boys crawled all over him, slept on him and continuously hugged
him. I was mesmerized and fascinated by the ease, patience and calm he
exuded. He had so often been portrayed by the press as an arrogant leader, I
saw none of this. I had yet to vote in an election. While he had won my
intellect and given me a sense of the country I lived in, during the Games
he won my heart. He not only had the nation's interest in mind when he made
decisions but that of his own children. Brilliance, vision, strength,
courage, passion and humanity combined in a nation's leader, it was
extraordinary. Even in his death, he has once again given Canadians a sense
of themselves.
Au revoir, Pierre Elliot Trudeau.
Jennifer Briscoe
I consider myself very lucky to have met Pierre Trudeau on an election stop
in Chatham, Ont. in 1979. I was in grade eight and shook the hand of the
only Canadian prime minister to break the norm of the "cookie cutter" image
of dull, drab, too politically-correct prime ministers. He made the world
turn heads with his style and he wasn't afraid to speak his mind. It was
this image of him that made the world not only notice Trudeau, but also put
Canada on the world stage. When American TV stations broadcast the death of
a Canadian prime minister, you know the world finally notices Canada. It is
people like Pierre Trudeau who makes me proud to be Canadian. My thoughts
and prayers go out to the family and relatives of Pierre Trudeau.
Dennis Barron
Kitchener, Ont.
As a young teenager, I had the pleasure in walking by his side at the 'Miles
for Millions' walkathon in Toronto in the 70's.
I'll never forget the emotional feeling I had as a young Canadian, and the
experience will never to be forgotten, walking side by side with the Prime
Minister, Pierre Elliot Trudeau. When a reporter from the Toronto Telegram
interviewed me, I was so nervous. I was lost for words.
As the years have gone by I have admired him and he has made me proud to be
Canadian. We Stand for Thee, Always in our Hearts you will Be.
God will always be with you.
Nicholas Giugias
A proud Canadian
I "met" Mr. Trudeau at a party given by Roy Heenan when he joined the firm Heenan Blaikie. My first impression was that although he was shorter than I expected he effortlessly filled the room with his presence. I was young and about to be admitted to the Quebec Bar. I was also trying very hard to be sophisticated and nonchalant.
A wonderful buffet was laid out in an adjoining room. Being a vegetarian I filled my plate once with leafy vegetables which did not satisfy my Italian appetite so I went back for more. As I was exiting the buffet room Mr. Trudeau was standing just outside. He looked at me and laughed as he said "back again." I was in shock ! HE spoke to me... my secret fantasy fulfilled with no effort. What is more HE must have noticed me! Oh my god... I could not remember the witty line I had practised in my head all night just in case our paths crossed. What do you say to a living legend?
Awkwardly I replied with a breathless "yes" and basically ran away. After I composed myself I tried not to run over my words as I recounted the historic meeting to my boyfriend at the time (who worked in the same office). In the years since I have met many so-called V.I.P.'s including many politicians. Somehow it never occurs to me to repeat stories of my encounters with them.
For one brief shining moment I, ordinary citizen, held Mr. Trudeau's attention. Until I read the stories from other Canadians I thought I was alone in feeling the afterglow for years to come.
E. Martuccelli
LaSalle, QC
So often I've put in this situation, when my mind races in silence through a
myriad of thoughts and comments that emotion suppresses. This time though,
I realise I will never have a second chance to speak out.
On the night after Pierre Elliott Trudeau's passing I reflect and mourn this
great man who has touched my life, like that of many other Canadians, and
perhaps single-handedly scuttled the make-up of the society I am so proud
of. He was not a father of the country, he was merely a guardian of its
destiny like a god-father who would take upon himself to nurture the
principles instilled by the parents. I admired his intellect and his
convictions and always will.
I was only 10 years old when he first was elected to power, much too young
to understand the issues of the time or how much of an impact he and his
philosophy would have on my life. Like many other young "Québéquois" I was
often lost between passion and reason, lacking life experience and maturity
to rationalise the issues of the 70's. At 42 years old, living in British
Columbia for the past 20 years, I now fully understand and respect the
vision he worked so hard to instil in my generation.
I briefly met Mr. Trudeau on the slopes of Whistler Mountain few years ago
in a line up at the T-Bar. I was skiing alone, like I often enjoy doing,
when I was asked by a ski instructor if I minded taking a young child with
me to ride up. A quick confusion led the poor child to lose his footing and
fall down in the line up. I bent down to help him get back on his skis and a
gentleman graciously picked up the youngster's ski pole. I turned around to
thank the gentleman but the words wouldn't come out as I realised it was
Pierre Elliott Trudeau standing there offering me a ski pole.
I was surprised and mesmerised. I wanted to say ... "Thank you" but for
much more than just the gracious gesture.
Everyday of my life I get reminded how fortunate I am to live in an era that
has been influenced by such a great man. Eleven years ago, I married a
wonderful English speaking lady from BC who learnt French out of pure desire
to do what she thought was the important thing to do. We have two beautiful
children being educated in a French program in BC to whom my wife and I have
made a commitment to raise them in a bilingual family environment. And to
top it all up, I'm living a bilingual life at the foothills of the
breathtaking mountains of Whistler ... "I hope you will understand why I had
such a hard time expressing my gratitude."
You will never be forgotten
Thank you
Serge Côté
My meeting with The Right Honourable Pierre Trudeau took place
in one of the most remote and unlikely places you'd expect to meet the
Prime Minister of Canada. I was spending the year travelling through Central
and South America. It was the last leg of my trip, and I was in Georgetown
Guyana, in May 1975. Almost broke, somewhat battle scarred by an exciting but
turbulent journey and weakened by the ravages of a tropical disease I'd
picked up in Ecuador six months before, I'd gone to the Canadian High
Commission in Georgetown to check for mail from home. The High
Commissioner, walking around the office in shirtsleeves, (it was a typically
hot humid day in the tropics) mentioned that Prime Minister Trudeau was
coming to Guyana on a short visit and invited my friend and me to attend a
reception for Mr Trudeau a week later. We were scheduled to leave Guyana
before Mr. Trudeau's arrival but decided to stay to attend his reception
because it was too great an opportunity to miss.
Seven years before, in the Trudeaumania summer of 1968, before leaving for
graduate studies in Spain, I'd seen Mr. Trudeau, absolutely mobbed by an
adoring public, in Toronto campaigning at a wild rally at Nathan Philips
Square. For me it was a heady experience because I'd been an avid supporter
of his for the leadership of the party and I was now finally old enough to
vote. My first vote in a federal election would be cast for him. A few weeks
after the election, elated that Mr. Trudeau was now in charge of Canada, I
left for Spain to pursue my studies at the University of Madrid. Everywhere
I went, the first word out of people's mouth's after I said I was Canadian
was "Trudeau." Prime Minister Trudeau had put Canada on the map and made me
proud to be a Canadian. Singlehandedly, he had given Canada international
status and stature.
Now, seven years later in May of 1975, in the former British colony of
Guyana, I was about to cross paths with my political hero again. In order to
stay an extra week in Guyana to meet with Mr. Trudeau, we had to undergo an
intensive interview with a Guyanese government official, who insisted on
being called Mistress Brown throughout the interview. We survived her
scrutiny and were allowed to renew our visas until the day after the
reception for our Prime Minister.
The day of Trudeau's arrival the streets were lined with schoolchildren
waving placards bearing his picture. He was driven to a park in the centre
of the city where there was a public rally celebrating the status of
Georgetown and Ottawa as twin cities, a fact which was news to me and
probably to Mr. Trudeau as well. There he was, looking dapper and handsome
as ever, in a tan safari jacket the official dress of the Guyanese
politicos. Tanned and healthy, Trudeau seemed out of place in the company of
the dour "Comrade Prime Minister" Forbes Burnam of Guyana and his entourage
of henchmen. The fact that Forbes Burnam was called Comrade Prime Minister
in the state-sanctioned media gave us a pretty good idea of what his
politcs were. Mr. Trudeau handled his introduction as Comrade Prime Minister
Trudeau with real political savvy, by ignoring it completely. The Canadian
press core, could barely suppress their laughter when Forbes Burnam
committed that undeniably foolish political faux pas, but Prime Minister
Trudeau shot them such a withering look that they quieted down
immediately. At least he knew that Guyana, although weak by international
standards, was a powerful voice in the world of Carribean politics and not
to be toyed with. After the speeches, the park was quickly cleared by the
Guyanese military police who waved us all away with guns in hand. I wondered
at that point if we would get through the security later that night for the
reception at the Canadian High Commissioner's private residence.
Finally, at 8 p.m. that night it was time for the reception for Mr. Trudeau.
We were driven to the fete by Bill, the owner of "Bill's Guesthouse" where
we had been staying while in Georgetown. Bill was so thrilled for us he had
polished his car and sported a chauffeur's cap in our honour so we would
feel special. We were under no illusions as to why we'd been invited. There
were so few Canadians in Guyana other than a couple of bankers, geologists
and bauxite miners that as tourists we were there to fill the ranks. We made
it through the the security guarding the gates surrounding the compound
where most of the foreign embassy residences were located, and clutching our
invitations we breezed through the reception line shaking hands with the
High Commissioner and some other nameless officials. Inside, there were very
few guests other than a very noisy and somewhat inebriated press core
huddled around the makeshift bar set up in the living room. A cameraman, in
ripped blue jeans and a grease-stained shirt came over to hit on us. He was
all of 19, and totally unaware of what and where Guyana was. "I'm only here
to take pictures," he told us. In stark contrast to the rumpled press core,
the guests were all dressed to the nines. My friend and I had managed to
pull together a slightly more respectable look than the media guys but we
were not what one would call dressed up, after all, we'd been on the road
for almost a year and our clothes showed it.
Suddenly, HE was there, sweeping into the room through the reception
line, sans Margaret. She'd been scheduled to come but as we learned later,
had stayed behind in Jamaica because of complications caused by her
pregnancy. The room went quiet and all eyes were focused on him. Mr. Trudeau
looked so relaxed and so coolly casual in his white safari jacket and wide
smile, that my friend Cheryl and I breathed a collective sigh of relief and
waited to see what would happen next. He chatted for a few seconds with some
people on the other side of the room when he caught sight of us staring at
him. Before we knew it, he looked us square in the eyes, strode across the
room directly over to us and said, "You're a long way from home. How long
have you been in Guyana?" That was the beginning of the most incredible
conversation of my entire trip. He listened so intently to our stories about
our travels around South America, that we felt as if we were the only people
in the room. We spoke both French and English to let him know that we were
proud to be bilingual Canadians. At one point in the conversation he
peppered us with questions about where we'd been in Canada and seemed
pleased that we'd been "a mare usque ad mare" as my friend Cheryl so aptly
put it. Behind him, I could see a number of official-looking dignitaries
looking at their watches, pursing their lips, and shooting us dirty looks.
Anxiously, I told Mr. Trudeau about them. He just smiled and said that he
was enjoying his chat with us and that was all that mattered at the
moment. Five minutes later someone tugged gently at his sleeve. Again, Mr.
Trudeau just smiled and shrugged him away. It was then that I realized that
he was truly the people's prime minister because it was more important to
him at that moment, to talk to us, a couple of young wandering Canadians,
than it was to be rushed off to do something else. He chatted with us about
his own travels as a young man and before bidding us farewell about 30
minutes later he issued us an invitation to visit him and Margaret at 24
Sussex when we returned to Canada. Cheryl, my friend, chuckled as if to hint
that she didn't really think it was a sincere gesture. Mr Trudeau, turned
back to look at us as he was leaving and said, "I'm serious, come and see us
when you get home. I want to know how the adventure ends." Our greatest
regret is that we never took him up on it.
Now, 25 years later, overwhelmed with grief, I'm sitting here at my computer at
2:30 A.M. listening to CBC Newsworld relate stories about people who've come
from all parts of Canada to Parliament Hill to pass by his flag-draped
coffin to pay their respects and I'm haunted by the fact that none of us,
especially those of us who loved and respected him will ever have the chance
to experience his greatness again. We have lost Canada's conscience and soul.
"Goodbye sweet prince whilst flights of angels sing thee to thy rest." You
were a stateman, a father, and a true patriot who gave us a reason to believe
that "with all its sham and drudgery its still a beautiful world."
Elisabeth Munsterhjelm
Windsor, Ontario
I understand that many people have met Mr. Trudeau and have had many reactions to him as a former long standing Prime Minister. My reaction was awe.
I was very young when he entered the scene in the late 60's by the late 70's I had joined the Canadian Armed Forces and was serving in Ottawa, when on numerous vonlunteered occasions met Mr. Trudeau. On one such occasion I was one of many volunteers serving tea & coffee to incoming dignitaries from all over the world.
One the dignitaries bumped into one of the vonlunteers and she spilt hot coffee all over him. He became very angry and started to curse, arms flying all over the place. The young lady kept apologizing and the dignitary wouldn't stop screaming at her. The Prime Minister was there in a flash, having witness this mishap. He then informed the gentleman to appologize as it was inappropriate and unrequired behaviour in this country. Humbled, the dignitary apologized and was attended by his spouse. The Prime Minister turned to the distraught young lady and smiled, he asked if she was O.K. He also mentionned that she had performed very well in the situation.
Instantly Mr. Trudeau became my hero! The situation was handled in less than two minutes and things resumed to normal. He was a great man for many obvious reasons, he commanded respect because he respected others. We, as a country will miss him dearly, but his memory will never die.
May he rest in peace.
Diane Cotton
I am writing to express my deepest sympathies to the Trudeau family. This is a time of reminiscence and nostalgia for Canadians, but it is a time of personal loss for your family.
As a former McGill grad student, I have fond memories of my daily walks from my apartment at the bottom of Cote des Neiges to Beatty Hall, where I studied to become a Speech-Language Pathologist
during the mid-1990's. In an effort to get to class on time, I often cut through the "dog park" on Penfield and jogged up the infamous 6 flights of stairs to Pine Avenue, trying to catch my breath as I passed Mr.
Trudeau's residence, which was just steps away from Beatty Hall.
On one particular quiet, dark, and cold winter night, I was returning home from an evening of research, and I found myself making the decision as to whether to continue down the well-lit Pine Avenue to the
well-traveled Cote des Neiges or to take the quicker route which involved walking down the stairs to the park. The stairs were dark, full of shadows, and hidden by trees. In a moment of poor judgement, I
turned and walked down the stairs. As I reached the half-way mark, a tall man, wearing a hat and a cape, seemed to appear our of nowhere. He seemed to be effortlessly travelling up the stairs toward me,
at a moderate pace. My heart started to race, as I thought of my vulnerability in this potentially dangerous situation. Seconds later, this man tipped his hat and, in a gentle voice, said, "Good evening". I was
so overcome with relief that I completely took for granted that I had just experienced my first encounter with Pierre Elliot Trudeau.
Our second meeting was far less traumatic, as he wished me a good morning on my way to write an early morning exam. On both occasions, I was somewhat overcome by his seemingly paradoxical
qualities of being both worldly and approachable at the same time. In retrospect, I sometimes regret that I didn't have something more profound or complimentary to say to him during those brief
encounters, as I sensed that he would have had the patience to listen. However, I also think that Mr. Trudeau, in all his worldliness, appreciated that he could walk out his front door and receive occasional
greetings and silent respect from his various neighbours and the many students who crossed his path.
Yours sincerely,
Jennifer Poulin Newman
Windsor, Ontario
In the spring of 1999, I had a wonderful job coordinating the Virtual Classroom at TVOntario.
I had just finished a live show with a friend of mine and we were higher than kites because the show was so successful. We were walking down the hallway (at the Yonge and Eglinton location of TVOntario) there are restaurants, shops and a movie theatre located here. We were laughing and quite full of ourselves when my friend stopped in her tracks and said, "Lynda... Look!"
Coming up a flight of stairs was a lovely little girl walking along with with a gentleman in tow. I smiled at the child then looked up straight into the mischievous twinkling eyes of Pierre. I couldn't breathe. This was my hero. In person.
He had stopped half way up the stairs and we were half way down. My beautiful friend and I were grinning from ear to ear... it was contagious... he stopped and was grinning right back at us.... she put out her hand and said "It's an honour to meet you , sir."
He shook her hand and turned to me and took my hand. I blurted out a few nonsense syllables and then said "I'm so excited! I've wanted to meet you all my life!" With a typical Trudeau shrug, he opened up both his arms and said "Well... Here I am." We all laughed. (I thought I might faint! Talk about a crush!)
Then he said "And this is my little girl" This was her cue to pull on his hand and say "Let's go Daddy." He looked up at us and smiled and said "We're going to the movie."
The last thing we saw, on this bright sunny afternoon, was a totally unescorted free man, Pierre Elliot Trudeau, hand-in-hand with his beautiful little daughter walking into a movie theatre that was playing "Barney."
God, I loved that man. I always will.
Lynda Pogue
Hillsburgh, Ontario
Yes it is a sad time in our country, however all good things must pass. I am a child of the 60's and still am, I remember when Mr. Trudeau came onto the scene, my dad hated him, so I thought Trudeau must be okay. Things were very much simpler then and the whole world was in the middle of a learning curve. The Beatles still ruled the music scene and love was the theme.
In 1970, I hitchhiked across Canada, going back to my roots in Ottawa. On a visit to Parliment Hill I came across a small group of people just outside the main entrance, they appeared to be waiting for something, cameras in hand. They were mostly woman and all gusseyed up in their best summer dresses. Me in my jeans, totting a Nelson Trapper on my back stood back to see what was happening.
Then he appeared, the woman squealed with delite and began to clap, Mr. Trudeau strode over to them and greeted everyone of them, I stood my distance watching the spectacle. He looked over and saw me standing there and left the group and came over to greet me, his security people scurried ahead of him to quickly check me out, he had a warm smile on his face and exstended his hand to me asking, "How far have you come?"
"Vancouver, BC," I said, shaking his hand.
"You're a long way from home."
"Not really," I said, "I was born in Ottawa."
"And where are you headed next?" he said.
"PEI," I said.
"Ahh yes, have a safe journey."
With that he thanked everyone and headed for his waiting car, his security people in tow. A small bit of time in my life, but it has stuck with me like glue. I know there are probably thousands of simaler occurances, but he made you feel like you were the most important one.
My condolences to Sacha, Justin and Margaret.
Yours,
Rod Gillis
Victoria, BC
I would like to relate a story of an incident which happened to me showing what a charming and charismatic person Pierre Trudeau was.
When my father, Genzo Kitagawa, was invested with the Order of Canada in October of 1976, I accompanied him and mother to Ottawa. As my mother was confined to a wheelchair, I was given special permission to attend the investiture and the dinner reception after the ceremony. Lined up to enter the dining room I noticed Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau right behind us. I bent down to apply the brakes on the wheel chair to avoid bumping into the person in front of us. As I bent down, my pearl necklace caught the handle of the wheelchair and the pearls scattered all over the floor. Naturally, I was embarrassed and tried to retrieve the pearls. Mr. Trudeau without a moment's hesitation, went down on his knees to help me retrieve the pearls that had scattered in every direction. He recovered most of the pearls for me. He wore a beautiful
cream coloured suit and looked very handsome. I was very thrilled and thankful for his help and realized that he was a very kind considerate, obliging and unpretentious person.
Every citizen of the country will be saddened by his passing and will be forever indebted to him for the legacy he has left us.
Mabel S. Tamaki
Regina, SK
On the evening of Feb 14, 1974 Pierre Trudeau entered a school gymnasium packed with 500 immigrants in Toronto The occasion was a community citizenship swearing in ceremony organized by New Canada a citizenship
promotion Local Initiative Program which I Directed as a recent university graduate. The Prime Minister was supportive of our approach of demystifying the formality of adults and senior becoming citizens of a country of their choice,
one which they embraced wholeheartedly. That evening Trudeau, who had planned to leave soon after the ceremony noticed the warmth and love that these immigrants had shown him with a seemingly never ending applause as
he entered, stayed for over two hours longer than planned. He made all 500 people feel that he appreciated their presence and waded into the crowd shaking hands and eating the home made foods prepared by the over 50 new
Canadian individuals who were sworn in. The event was punctuated with cheers of "Viva Trudeau" a sign of acceptance and human connection, a reaching of the people.
It was that sudden change in his plans to stay longer amongst the immigrants that I will remember for ever. I will also remember the hundreds of cameras flashing with Trudeau standing by these people very much like Bishops do
after people are confirmed. I am sure that each one of those family which took pictures that evening have taken them out and, as I have, placed them in a most prominent place on display in their home for their families and friends to
see.
I believe what most people like that most about Trudeau was that he spoke directly to the people with words that people could understood with a fervor which encouraged us to practice our Canadianism, to get involved in making
this country a better place it live in. People felt that they mattered. The right of democracy was alive and well in those days. Today, I feel a sense of rekindling of my senses that tells me to wake up again and make this country a
place that works for the people again. A sense which, for the last many years, I have lost with nowadays the power of the financial institutions and the mega organizations dictating the essence of what this country should be.
Two years ago I sent Trudeau a greeting card with red rose on it and thanked him for his commitment to the people of Canada. Now that he has gone from this land, I feel fulfilled that I had performed my role as a citizen remembering
his sacrifice of one leader who gave it all he had and touched so many of us.
Thanks
Danny Bellissimo, Toronto
As a lower middle ranking officer in the Department of External Affairs, in
1971 I was assigned to the Tito Visit Task Force. I and my wife Luanna met
Prime Minister Trudeau at an official reception on Parliament Hill. While
President Tito's security team advance phalanx walked over our shoes and
spilled my wife's wine glass, Prime Minister Trudeau stopped to smile and
apologize. My wife was too timid to kiss him on his cheek. At this moment, we
both remember his thoughtful gesture.
Anthony and Luanna Chernushenko
On a visit to Ottawa in 1980, I called the Prime Minister's office, unannounced, to see if I could meet Mr. Trudeau. His staff said that was not possible, but respectful persistence paid off and I was granted a few minutes just before a lunch break "before an important overseas call comes in." When ushered into his private office in the Langevin Block, with knees shaking, I was greeted by a warm handshake and friendly chat about where I was from etc... until the desk phone rang. Amazingly to me, he asked me to wait outside until he was finished and then we could walk to his car. In those few minutes, he concentrated entirely on me, genuinely interested in what I, Joe Citizen, was saying. We took that walk, the conclusion of which was I, standing alone, transfiguired on the sidewalk while his limo rushed away. I had an overwhelming sense that he was truly a humble superstar whose natural curiousity tried to uncover anything special he didn't already know about somewhere, something or someone. To this day, I could not say if he was even in shoes because his gaze rivetted mine on his eyes.
On a holiday to Nova Scotia some years later, my wife and I saw a public notice to come and meet PC candidate Mr. Mulroney at a coffee party in someone's house. We waited, with about 50 others on a hot August day, shorts and T-shirt the attire as holidayers. Mr. Mulroney went around the house, shaking everyone's hand, offering a friendly comment to all. When he got to me, he cooly said, "How did you get in here?" and carried right on. I wasn't dirty or sloppy but the contrast between what had been a Prime Minister's interest, and a future Prime Minister's disdain, when meeting one of the ordinary folk always stuck with me. The media's "arrogant Trudeau" and "blarney Mulroney" will forever make me skeptical of what we are shown.
The ensuing years have been a blur, but Mr. Trudeau's passing has refocussed my attention on how few leaders we have with a passion for people. All to frequent now is a face on camera trying to fashion power.
Denis Fagnan
Bonnyville, Alberta
I remember the first time I met Mr. Trudeau. I must have been 10 or 11
years old.
I was visiting one of the hangers at the Ottawa Airport with an old friend
of the family. In the hanger was a beautiful helicopter which had been
recently painted red and white. The seating area in the helicopter was
padded with red velvet. I climbed into the helicopter and was just sitting
in it, possibly imagining that I was the pilot. From out of nowhere, a man
came up to the helicopter. He popped his head inside and said "pretty nice
isn't it?" Feeling a little frightened as I new I probably should not have
been sitting in the helicopter, I replied yes.
The man asked me my name and I told him. He held out his hand and
introduced himself as Pierre. I shook his hand in return. Then he asked if
I minded if he was to join me. Into the cockpit he climbed and just sat
there. After a few minutes, he took in a large breath, turned towards me,
thanked me for letting him sit with me, shook my hand once again and left.
When I returned to the person that brought me to visit the hanger, I told
him what had happened. I told him the man said that his name was Pierre.
My friend then told me that the man was Pierre Trudeau and it was his
helicopter that I was sitting in. I asked him why he had a helicopter and
he replied, "because he is the Prime Minister."
I will never forget that experience. I can see it all now as clear as if it
had just happened. Pierre Trudeau had a very special and private side of
him. One that most Canadians never saw. I feel very honored to have
personally been a part of that side. Even if it was only for a few minutes
and I really didn't know who he was at the time. I will miss him. Canada
will miss him.
Robert Gallant
Ottawa, Ontario
I met him twice, once as a young Liberal campaigner in New
Brunswick in the days prior to his first being elected. We worked hard to
get him and his candidates elected. What impressed me most about him was
his vision, you just knew this guy was going to change the status quo. I do
not believe, as some would say, that he was arrogant. However, I do not
think that he suffered fools well.
The second time was as a Mountie providing him with personal security
on his travels to the west, and he hadn't changed much, still full of
drive and still providing us with his ideas of what Canada should be.
I shared these memories with my staff at work today and with my oldest
child who wanted to know more. We spoke at length. She thought it was
important. She thought he must have had a big influence on how Canada has
developed over the years. She was right.
He polarized Canadians I believe and confronted us to do something about our identity and we did. We have lost a great leader of our time and I believe we are a richer
and more tolerant country due in part to his tenure as Prime Minister.
Ken Chambers
Edmonton, Alberta
I had the honour of meeting mr Trudeau in 1988 when he visited Dryde. I had been asked to attend the door at the local Legion hall when Mr. Trudeau
was to have lunch. I was introduced to Mr. Trudeau by Mr. Keith Penner, the member for Kenora Rainey River. After Mr. Trudeau and guest were seated for
lunch Mr. Trudeau motioned to me and asked of he could have a sandwich of jam and peanut butter. I went into the kitchen and requested this from the
ladies and they were shocked but Mr. Trudeau was very pleased when returned with it.
To his family and the people of Canada I express my deep sympathy and sense of loss.
James C. Seeley
Dryden Ontario
I remember in 1968, my elementary school had a mock election and Mr. Trudeau
won by a landslide. Even then, as children, we knew he was someone special.
Then in 75/76 on a field trip to Ottawa with my highschool, we were on
Parliament Hill. When we saw Mr. Trudeau leaving and heading for his car, we
all cheered him and sudddenly he stopped and turned and came toward us. We
were just a bunch of cheering high school kids but he came over and shook
our hands and talked to us for a bit. I remember thinking I couldn't wait
to be 18 so I could vote for him. I got the chance to in 1980.
He made me proud to be a bilingual Canadien! Merci, Mr Trudeau for everything you did
for Canada. There will never be another like you!
Sylvia DiIorio
Hello, our family, the Norrie Family, is sharing this day of remembrance
for Pierre Elliot Trudeau.
We as a family are realizing how Trudeau influenced our lives and our
communities. My grandmother, Senator Margaret Norrie, was appointed to the
Senate by Pierre Trudeau in 1972. This appointment gave Margaret the
opportunity to influence improvement and growth in our community in Truro,
Nova Scotia and in Atlantic Canada.
After many years, Margaret left a legacy of community leaders in our
family. Margaret's daughter, Hon. Margaret Norrie McCain became the
Lieutenant Governor of New Brunswick, and Margaret's daughter-in-law, my
mother, Eleanor Norrie, became a Cabinet Minister for Nova Scotia, the
Minister responsible to bringing Natural Gas on shore in Nova Scotia.
It is tremendous the influence Trudeau has had on our family and the
communities we live in. Trudeau opened the political door for our family
which led to career and business success for our family and our community.
That influence opened doors for us as we were growing up. Without that,
I would likely not find myself representing the 3rd largest sporting event
in the world, The Edmonton 2001 8th IAAF World Championships in Athletics
today.
Ask yourself, would you be in a different place in your life without
Pierre Trudeau's influence on Canada? Just think how many other families
in Canada and the world were influenced by Trudeau in a similar way.
Here is a webpage recognizing Senator Margaret Norrie.
Jackie Norrie
Edmonton
As a child growing up in Montreal in the early seventies, I knew Pierre E. Trudeau as the "Father of Canada." My parents admired and respected him, as did I. After school, my friends and I would travel on our bikes to his house in hopes of
seeing him. We did, on one occasion, meet him, walking towards us with two brown paper bags of groceries, we waved and jumped around in amazement as he approached us. He set his bags down to sit on the curb with us to spend what
seemed like an eternity talking. I remember being thrilled at his comment of the '29' on my Montreal Canadiens shirt. As an 8-year-old, this had a profound impact and is a moment that I will never forget. In many ways, I feel his impact in
my life to this day. For me, his sense of passion, strength and vision is the embodiment of Canada.
Monsieur Trudeau, I wear a red rose on my lapel for you today.
Chris J. Côté
Put simply, Pierre Elliot Trudeau was the best leader to come out of Québec AND Canada, bar none!
He had style as well as substance, charisma, passion, morality and the great mind. He could also be tough. Just look at the newsreels of the FLQ crisis. That list of characteristics for one man is just not found in present day
polititions, anywhere in the world. The last one I guess would have been Churchill.
I met Trudeau once (well I shook his hand along with many, many, others) at the Jubilee Auditorium in Edmonton, U of A campus, where he got a very long standing ovation. This in the west where he was supposed to be enemy number one.
I just remember thinking at the time, as now, that he was larger than life and a great man.
He will me missed.
Wayne Gill
Trudeau was a constant in the lives of Canadians born in the 1960's. He
was almost larger than life. It was his kindness towards my grandmother
in the early 80's that made him human for me. My uncle was introduced
to Trudeau at a barbeque in Ottawa and mentioned that his mother (my
grandmother) who lived in Toronto had always been one his staunch
supporters. Trudeau's immediate response was "Let's call her." The two
of them availed themselves of their host's telephone and for five or ten
minutes Trudeau and my grandmother chatted companionably. Needless to
say she was thrilled and honoured.
Nancy Malek
I was one of the fortunate ones to actually have met Mr. Trudeau. I am trully sadden by his death. Rest in peace O Great One.
Pierre Rochon
Vars, Ont.
I am extremely saddened by the passing of the Honourable Pierre Elliott
Trudeau. My vivid memory of Mr. Trudeau was back in June of 1970.
I was 8 years old and our Grade 4 class was visiting Ottawa. We were given a
tour of the Parliament buildings as part of our trip and our tour guide
was the Honourable Donald MacDonald. One of my classmates was the late
Roland Michener's granddaughter so we had this tour arranged for us as
well as lunch at the Governor General's residence.
Mr. Trudeau came
walking by us and stopped to chat with us. I asked him if he remembered
my grandfather the now late Eric Arthur who wrote the book Toronto No
Mean City amongst other books, and who spoke very highly of Mr. Trudeau.
My grandfather had been to Ottawa on several occasions to meet Mr.
Trudeau. Mr. Trudeau was gracious, kind and warm and told me of course
he remembered my grandfather and remembered when he had won the Order Of
Canada three years previous. He then gave me his rose from his lapel and
told me "Tell your Grandfather hello from Pierre and tell him to write
me." I was stunned and in awe!
I will miss him greatly as will all
of Canada!
Sincerely,
Cally Specht nee Arthur
Toronto
I have met several persons that have given me lasting memories,
two of which were James Aurness (Matt Dillon of Gun Smoke) but most
memorable was Mr. Trudeau. These meetings took place at the Burwash
Landing Airport, Y.T. at mile 1093 on the Alaska Highway in the seventies.
I remember travelling by train from Calgary to Ottawa in 1968,
thinking of this new PM running for election, and that he was single and
many thought the PM should really be a married family man. He was
certainly an energetic and entertaining person, and Canada needed
someone new and different.
I met PM Trudeau, just after the wage controls were imposed,
and he and Sacha had been surveying the new proposed Kluane National
Park. One of us had to go out and say hello, and he said "I didn't
think you would want to talk to me now, refering the wage controls.
No problem, to say hi to him was important anytime!
For humour, I gave Sacha a pair of red goggles used to get our eyes used
to the dark for night weather observations. When Sacha went
out to the helicopter wearing those, stumbling along, Pierre thought
that was a most humorous vision to behold.
I am quite bereved, as I am sure most Canadians are today. No one in my
memory has had such a favourable international presence, or at home, than
the one who coined the phrase "Just watch me!"
Brian A. Balderson
Professional Radio Operator
I lived through Trudeaumania. I will always remember the day I waited in line for hours to shake his hand. The handshake and the smile were genuine.
Trudeau lived life with a passion that has not been equaled since. Canada became known worldwide because of this man's charisma and strong beliefs.
Thank you Mr. Trudeau. You will remain forever in the minds and hearts of Candians that had the opportunity to live during your reign.
Lorraine Beauchamp
I remember Pierre Trudeau from my high school days in Calgary. As the
crowd of students in the gym parted for him on his way to the stage, I
stood there along his route and extended my hand. As he shook it, I
looked into his eyes and felt the intensity, "the presence" of this
great leader.
I am saddened to hear we have lost a true visionary of Canada.
Eduardo Pabustan
Dear CBC,
It is a sad day in Canada. Thank you for your dignified coverage of Mr. Trudeau's death.
I am but 30, and yet I can very clearly remember the day I shook Mr.
Trudeau's hand. I was 4. My grandfather was a city counsellor in Niagara
Falls, and with him, I was in a receiving line when Mr. Trudeau visited
Niagara during the campaign.
I have always remembered that day as special.
I saw him again at a rally, again in Niagara Falls, in 1980, just from
the audience. That day too remains clear in my memory.
I never got to vote for the Liberal party led by Mr. Trudeau, but I would
like to think I would have had he still been in office when I came of age.
Godspeed to a great Canadian.
Robert Pearson
Mississauga, Ontario
My name is Serge P. Watso and as an ordinary Canadian I had the privilege
as an RCMP member to be on his security detail on two occasions. First in
1976 as a young man at the Olympics, and then in 1986 in Ottawa. Mr.
Trudeau was the only former PM to be granted escorts by the RCMP. I
escorted him to a restaurant in Ottawa and on the way there he was
interested in finding out where my partner and I came from and how long we
had been in the RCMP. He later signed a book that he had co-authored, to
myself, wishing me the best. I was honoured to have had these brief but
memorable encounters with such a great man.
Serge Watso
Chateauguay, QC
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