A New Brunswick soldier has been identified as the man whose silhouette is immortalized on a wartime memorial in Victoria, B.C., honouring military personnel and public servants killed in the Afghanistan war.

The captivating image of a Canadian soldier reaching out to shake hands with a small Afghan boy has been seen across the globe since it was taken just over a decade ago. 

Taken by Reuters photographer Finbarr O'Reilly, it captured only a split-second meeting between the two, but it came to symbolize the Canadian mandate in the war-torn country of working hand in hand to rebuild the nation for a new generation. 

That image made its way in silhouette onto the Greater Victoria Afghanistan Memorial in British Columbia alongside the names of the 163 Canadians who were killed in the war. 

But despite months of effort, the Afghanistan Memorial Society could not find the identity of the soldier in the silhouette, until Amanda McCauley recognized her husband's likeness on the 8,100 pound slab of granite when it was featured in the news. 

Finbarr O'Reilly Photograph

The handshake between Canadian soldier Lt. Michael McCauley and an Afghan boy was captured by Reuters photographer Finbarr O'Reilly on July 13, 2007. (Finbarr O'Reilly/Reuters )

Lt. Michael McCauley flew to the unveiling ceremony of the monument held last Saturday. 

"It's humbling, knowing that I was there to help represent the guys that will never get to see it," said McCauley after returning home from B.C. "I served with a lot of great people and I had the chance to serve with a few of the folks that never came back that are on that memorial." 

A moment in time

McCauley clearly recalls the day the iconic photo was taken. He said he was helping with training the Afghan National Army and security forces and was out on patrol amid some small towns. 

"There were a lot of villagers around and we felt relatively safe in the context of the environment at that time," said McCauley. "And there were a lot of children in the area, and one of the young boys was a little bit more adventurous than the others, I guess." 

Lt. Michael McCauley

Lt. Michael McCauley says he was humbled by his trip to the memorial unveiling. (Shane Fowler/CBC)

McCauley said the boy extended his hand and McCauley took it, while O'Reilly — in the right place at the right time — snapped away. 

"It was a friendly gesture from one person to another," said McCauley. "I'll never forget that."