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Talking to Children
About the War
Dr. Lynn Oldershaw, Developmental Psychologist,
CBC Children's and Youth Programming
Produced by Andrea
Graham
Why
it matters to talk to your kids about war
Many
parents are seeking advice on how to talk to their children
about the war. Although these conversations are not always
easy, they are important. The best way for children of all
ages to come to terms with something as potentially confusing
and threatening as war is to discuss it with someone they
trust and can rely on for support and reassurance.
Take
into account your child’s age, level of development
and ability to understand and process information. Use words
and concepts you know your child can understand. As a general
rule, the younger the child, the shorter and simpler the explanation.
In addition to age and maturity, you will need to consider
your child’s personality style and temperament when
having discussions about war. Some children are naturally
more prone to be fearful, and news of a potentially dangerous
situation may increase their anxiety. Some children or teens
may also be more sensitive to, or knowledgeable about, the
situation by virtue of their past experiences and exposure
to war-related discussions or activities.
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