01:03 AM EST Feb 10

Talking to Children About the War
Dr. Lynn Oldershaw, Developmental Psychologist,
CBC Children's and Youth Programming

Produced by Andrea Graham

Why it matters to talk to your kids about war

Many parents are seeking advice on how to talk to their children about the war. Although these conversations are not always easy, they are important. The best way for children of all ages to come to terms with something as potentially confusing and threatening as war is to discuss it with someone they trust and can rely on for support and reassurance.

Take into account your child’s age, level of development and ability to understand and process information. Use words and concepts you know your child can understand. As a general rule, the younger the child, the shorter and simpler the explanation. In addition to age and maturity, you will need to consider your child’s personality style and temperament when having discussions about war. Some children are naturally more prone to be fearful, and news of a potentially dangerous situation may increase their anxiety. Some children or teens may also be more sensitive to, or knowledgeable about, the situation by virtue of their past experiences and exposure to war-related discussions or activities.


 

MENU
MAIN: WHY IT MATTERS
HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT WAR
DEVELOPMENTAL CONSIDERATIONS
- INFANTS AND TODDLERS
- PRESCHOOLERS
- SCHOOL AGED KIDS
- TEENAGERS
A LEARNING OPPORTUNITY

RESOURCES
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